Getting married is tying your self to the other person with the vow to honor that person, to love him/her and be loyal for the rest of your life, but let us face it, there are others who are not able to fully fulfill that promise and the result is a lot of conflict. Emotional infidelity is something that is considered taboo in this society but it is still very prevalent.  Emotional infidelity is not entirely unavoidable but then it is not a choice either. You have to fully understand that emotional infidelity is something that no two people are choosing to have. You must be able to address that factor for you to be able to be more objective about this matter.